I was browsing one of my favorite messageboards the other
day and found this prose that someone had written, "We wrote
down all the pains we put aside today and never let us feel, and we
made a small fire in a protected corner of the field, and we read
each pain and burnt each pain and let it fly away into the stars,
and now we're ready for another day on teh earth." -- by darktides.
What a great way to start a fresh new beginning in the
spring of our lives. Where everything is new and we let out pains
be set free so that we can be re-born and have another chance to make
things better and work to become a survivor.
Here's another great quote I came acorss on the web,
"Investing the strength of your own respect. You can certainly
respect others without having to agree with the things they say or
do. In fact, respectful disagreement can be a powerful catalyst for
growth and achievement. Think with respect, speak with respect, and
act with respect toward others. It will surely make you more respected,
and that's something which can pay steady dividends for a long time
to come." --- Ralph Marston.
That is how I feel about you, my friends! I respect
you for any differences and believe that any disagreements that we
might have can help us mature during our growth and achievements.
If we would only think, speak and act with respect toward others,
think about how much more we all could achieve together as a unified
whole to make this a better Universe for all. AND -- A genuine, sincere
smile seen through the voice, eyes and touch will be a powerful stimulant
toward how others react toward you.
Someone sent me this quote, "Sometimes I forget
to be thankful for all things, even the pain. Even among the tragedies
of our world. Yet there is always that hope that because fo God...
Good can come out of any bad. This I believe with all my heart...
by Lora."
I am still learning...
"You can't depend on your eyes when your imagination
is out of focus." -- Mark Twain.
One of my special friend's favorite sayings is, "Everythingn
is New..." Those three words say a lot! My friend is a very wise
person even if they don't see themselves as such.
If I may add on to that, "Nothing never dies! It
only changes like the seasons. Giving us another chance in the Spring
to decide what to make of those changes. You can choose to be a victim
or you can choose to be a survivor. I will always choose to be a survivor
and make the most of every situation and experience."
I will sow my seeds of respect, light, courage, endurance,
strength, love and friendship the whole year and watch them sprout
into beautiful flowers. Some may call them weeds, but I can respect
that. it is because we all have different ways of viewing the same
things. To grow and achieve we need to be respectful of others' differences
and disagreements.
Don't be surprised if some Friday at high noon you might
see Oakie strolling into town for lunch and end up at Cattlemen's
Cafe with friends in tow. If you haven't had luch yet, then stop in
and meet me in person. let's get to know each other and share history
of NW Oklahoma families."
Have a great day... Linda (Oakie)
NOTE: Linda sent information about Sarah Caroline
Wright from Pat James to Theresa Colvin in Las Vegas on the internet
after last week's column with her request for information about Sarah
Wright. Sarah was Pat's great-grandmother and she says she has lots
of information for her. Therese said, "Thank you sooo much! I
have encountered some of the most wonderful people since I began my
search via the internet but you truly have gone above and beyond.
I'm out here in Las Vegas, NV. If it wasn't for the internet I don't
think I would have ever gotten anywhere with this search as a great
number of the family were from the Oklahoma area!"